Wednesday, 21 October 2026

“How can you stand those women??” Understanding the dislike of fibromyalgia patients as epistemic injustice and epistemic dysfunction

In today's post, Davy Tennison unpacks the role of medical dislike in the treatment of fibromyalgia patients. 

Doctor writing on paper.

Fibromyalgia (FM) is a chronic illness primarily of pain and fatigue. The illness is contested and lacks legitimacy, and FM patients lack credibility in medical spaces. A recent study in UK FM care found that doctor-patient relationships are often fraught and unproductive, with patients not believed or listened to (epistemic injustice). FM patients are also vulnerable to structural epistemic injustice that points to epistemic dysfunction in the medical system. Essentially: “No one wants to look after the fibro patient.”

I think this epistemic injustice can be understood as mediated by dislike. Specifically, a dislike-disgust-distrust feedback loop that furthers dislike of FM patients and further undermines their credibility. This feedback loop also invites moralising attitudes towards patients and punitive reactions that I call Doctor Knows Best moves.

Dislike-disgust-distrust feedback loop

Negative reactions from healthcare providers regarding FM patients include:

“They should all be shot”, “Let’s hope she doesn’t come back. I can’t stand her, she’s a fibromyalgic”

“They are patients… towards whom I feel rejection”, “Oooh how can you stand those women??”

“I always have this doubt […] It’s like you want to shake them and say: [pause] 'Snap out of it already! '” These examples display a range of feelings including dislike, disgust and distrust – but how are they connected?

FM is stereotyped as a women’s illness so I could talk about cultural and misogynistic, links between women’s bodies and disgust – but as I don’t want to play into the undue feminisation of FM, I’ll focus on viewing disgust as the emotion of social rejection. Disgust reactions change how we view and treat others. And when combined with other prejudices (such as towards social groups) it can cause us to not only dehumanize others but see them as immoral. This is where distrust comes in. People triggered with a disgust reaction have an aversion to those who violate norms, seeing them as suspicious and untrustworthy.

How are FM patients norm violators? Briefly, FM patients can’t be cured and seldom get meaningfully “better” – which denies the doctor the role of healer. The doctor also likely knows very little about FM, and in fact patients often feel forced into a “patient expert” role – upending the usual role of who have the epistemic high-ground in the relationship.

So, FM patients, as norm violators, are disliked, found disgusting, and moralised against. And that moralising takes the place of distrusting and disbelieving them (seen as epistemic injustice). There is a punitive side to disgust, as the motivation to act morally comes with the motivation to punish those who do not.

These actions are also likely viewed as moral because in our dislike-disgust-distrust framework, FM patients are conceptualised as deserving of, or inviting them. In fact, FM stereotypes echo moralizing sentiments, e.g. views of patients as lazy, malingering, drug-seekers, etc. Similarly doctors label FM patients in ways that position them as morally wrong: noncompliant, difficult, heartsink.

I label these reactions, along with other instances of epistemic injustice faced by FM patients as Doctor Knows Best moves – and conceptualise them specifically as tactics of epistemic oppression.

Doctor Knows Best moves

In “Down Girl, Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny” (2017), Kate Manne conceptualises misogyny as the policing arm of the patriarchy, and describes misogynistic “Down Girl” moves that serve a punitive, moralising function – shaming women for perceived moral errors. Within a misogynistic environment Down Girl moves punish not just the violation of gendered norms, but any well-entrenched social norm.

A Doctor Knows Best move is a hostile or dismissive reaction from a doctor to an FM patient. It’s epistemic injustice, yes, but its more than that. It’s a kneejerk reaction to protect the epistemic institution of medicine, bolster the doctor’s position, and put the patient back in their place - which suggests an underlying, more systemic epistemic dysfunction in medicine.

This plays out in the FM doctor-patients relationship in ways such as:

Patients commonly reporting doctors sighing, looking annoyed with them, rolling their eyes etc.

Doctors try to avoid FM patients and report referring them away for this reason

On a more structural level, negative stereotypes and judgements of FM patients are passed down in e.g. medical schools (via the “hidden curriculum”.

This is a manifestation of an unjust and broken doctor-patient relationship, and an epistemic dysfunction in the institution of medicine.

It is an issue of epistemic injustice, yes, but it manifests as poor treatment of patients, making it a crucial issue of social injustice for FM patients today. 

Further reading:

Kelly, D. R. (2011). Yuck! : the nature and moral significance of disgust / Daniel Kelly. MIT Press.

Kidd, I. J., & Carel, H. (2017). Epistemic Injustice and Illness. Journal of Applied Philosophy, 34(2), 172–190. https://doi.org/10.1111/japp.12172 

Manne, K. (2017). Down girl : the logic of misogyny / Kate Manne. Oxford University Press. http://dx.doi.org/10.1093/oso/9780190604981.001.0001

PACFiND Study: https://www.abdn.ac.uk/iahs/academic/epidemiology/our-research/studies-list/pacfind/

Davy Tennison is a PhD student in UCL's Science & Technology Studies Department. Their work focuses on chronic contested illnesses, epistemic injustice in healthcare and the doctor-patient relationship.